Expectations for Newlyweds

Take some time for each of you to honestly answer these questions and then come together and share your answers with each other. There are no wrong answers.

My first impression of you was ____________________________________.

What I like about you is ____________________________________________.

My general image of you is ________________________________________.

What puzzles me about you is ____________________________________.

My most frequent daydreams about you are _________________________.

I love it when you ________________________________________________.

I feel uncomfortable with you when _________________________________.

When I am upset with you, I ______________________________________.

When you are upset with me, I ____________________________________.

I worry about you most when ______________________________________.

Our physical involvement makes me feel ____________________________.

The best feeling in any physical, sexual contact is ____________________.

I feel sexual sensations when _____________________________________.

When I fantasize about sex, I picture ______________________________.

What turns me on is ______________________________________________.

The surest turnoff for me is _______________________________________.

What I think you need to know about me is ________________________.

When I imagine having sex with you, I feel _________________________.

When I think of our future, I _______________________________________.

adapted from Getting Your Sex Life off to a Great Start by Clifford and Joyce Penner